Sarah Ruffi writes: "As women, we are conditioned to put everyone else before ourselves: Our spouses. Our kids. Our clients. Fortunately we have the ability and the right to change our priorities. It's OK to release your inner warrior and take the lead! YOU control your schedule. YOU decide what to delegate, and how. YOU decide whom you'll mentor. YOU set the pace for your firm's networking style. You'll have countless opportunities as a woman to diffuse and navigate difficult, stressful situations. If you have chosen a male-dominated career, you may need to work extra hard to prove your skills, ...